It’s o-fish-ally Friday and I like to stock the pond with different kinds of topics. Some of the topics might school you and increase your knowledge. Some will put a smile on your face to start off a reel-y good weekend. And others you may be too fishy to the taste so feel free to catch & release.
Sorry not Sorry
You don’t have to apologize for everything! Although, comedian Robert G Lee makes a good case for doing just that in the first 1:30 of this set. Honestly, you don’t want to be the guy that apologizes over and over again for the same thing. Is it really even an apology at that point? I used to get so pissed off at that type of person. Yup, me on my high horse laying out the decree for the land.
I was then convicted one day about all the sins I have repeated throughout my life; many not shown in the light of day. And yet, Jesus has the mercy and grace to forgive me over an over again. Many of those sins are in my past now, but new sorrows creep in. I still get irritated by the perpetually sorry people and my own perpetual sorry-ness, but I seek God out for His mercy and work on being full of that mercy.
And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you. Ephesians 4:32 KJV
A powerful tool was taught to me by Ford Taylor of Transformational Leadership many years ago: The 6 Step Apology. I hope you find this a worthy tool to put in your tackle box.
State the Offense - example: “I ate the last of the chocolate ice cream and I know you wanted that Babe.”
*Helpful hint- Married guys, it is important to state the offense to make sure you are apologizing for the right offense. Be specific.
“I was wrong.” - Yes, say the words “I was wrong.” Some of you may stutter on the word “wrong”. Don’t worry… just spit it out.
“I am sorry.” - Simply say, “I am sorry”. Now if you grew up being called a “sorry SOB” or similar and you have negative thoughts on that word; you can replace “I am sorry” with “I apologize”.
“Will you forgive me?” -Now if you are saying sorry and you are a repeat offender, then it is best to change it to, “When you can, will you forgive me?” This gives the offended the control over when that forgiveness comes.
“I give you permission to hold me accountable in the future.” - This step is not hard if you did something out of character, but it is a great way to help change your bad behaviors.
“Is there anything else?” - This is just to make sure there are no other grievances or grudges held.
This is just one of those tools that really strengthens a relationship. I pray this post comes at the right time for someone who needs healing.
Continental Airlines Would Have Never Required Masks!
(image Airplane the Movie)
My grandfather and a couple of my uncles were longtime airline men. Grandpa moved the family from Boston to Los Angeles and helped establish LA as the new airline hub. I have plenty of fond memories of arriving 15 minutes before my flight followed by a light jog to my gate to catch my plane utilizing their employee companion pass. The airline team were all smiles as they ushered me on and even taking my bag to throw below the plane. I always wore a tie as they often would move me up to First Class when available. Oh, the good ole’ days!
Good News…
TSA will not enforce the mask mandate.
Troubling News…
Cardiologist Says 30% of Vaccinated Pilots Would Fail Health Screenings Due to Vaccine Injuries.
Grilling update
My sons are on my grilling station planning team. My middle son wants me to get the Akorn Kamado Grill. He says we can do slow and low as well as pump it up to 700 for pizzas. Any thoughts?
That sounds like a versatile grill, Boston butts and pepperoni pies.